TINSLEY: Reflections: 'I wish the best for you'

Five years ago, Amber Guyger was found guilty of murder.

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Five years ago, Dallas police officer Amber Guyger was found guilty of murder. She had returned to her apartment after a long day to find what she thought was a intruder in her home. She drew her gun and fired, killing a young man, 26-year-old Botham Jean.

But, it wasn’t her home. The apartment she entered was one floor directly above her own, and the man she killed was her neighbor, at home eating a bowl of ice cream. Amber was fired from the Dallas Police force.



It took a year for the trial to work its way through the courts. The jury unanimously found Amber Guyger guilty of murder. She was sentenced to 10 years in prison.

Many celebrated the fact that a white police officer was held accountable for killing an unarmed and innocent young Black man. But the courtroom was stunned when the victim’s brother, Brandt Jean, asked permission to speak. Nervously tugging at his collar, Brandt looked at Ms.

Guyger and said, “I personally want the best for you. And, I wasn’t going to say this in front of my family or anyone, but I don’t even want you to go to jail. I want the best for you.

Because, that is exactly what Botham would want you to do. And the best is to give your life to Christ.” He paused, wiped his eyes and spoke to the judge.

“I don’t know if this is possible, but, can I give her a hug?” The judge consented. Brandt Jean met his brother’s killer in front of the judge’s bench. He said to her, “If you are truly sorry, I know .

.. I speak for myself, I forgive you.

And I know if you go to God and ask him, He will forgive you.” They embraced one another as they wept. The courtroom that a few minutes before was jubilant with vengeance fell silent except for the sound of people sobbing.

After the courtroom was cleared. Guyger asked the judge, Tammy Kemp, if she thought God could forgive her. Kemp told her, “Yes, God can forgive you and already has.

” The judge then gave Guyger one of her personal Bibles. None of this, of course, changes anything in terms of the verdict and the sentence that Amber Guyger is serving. But it changes everything in the matters of the heart.

Five years ago, in a Dallas courtroom the conversation changed from prejudice, vengeance, resentment and rage to acceptance, forgiveness and love. Jesus said, “For if you forgive others their transgressions, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others, then your Father will not forgive your transgressions” Jesus gave us the supreme example when he hung upon the cross, lifted His eyes to heaven and prayed, “’Father forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing’” (Luke 23:34).

Bill Tinsley reflects on current events and life experience from a faith perspective. Visit . Email.