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Helen, Lena and Hugh (surnames withheld) say they are three "sensitive and passionate people" in a relationship together. Now they've experienced life in a "throuple", they say it would be hard to return to monogamy. They believe being in a relationship of three keeps things interesting, takes the pressure off and — counter to popular belief — is good for their self-esteem.
"To switch between the two, for want of a better phrase, can be so beneficial because we each get different things from each other," Hugh, 30, told The Feed. "It takes the pressure off because my partner can get what they need from someone else and I'm still completely loved. That's so great," added Helen, 27.
On social media, throuples — or triads — are having a moment, sharing details of their relationships and causing others to question and wonder. READ MORE John's relationship broke down when he and his partner bought a house in the suburbs Sera Bozza, founder of dating coaching brand Sideswiped, says commitment now defies "one-size-fits-all labels". "We're seeing more people open up to ethical non-monogamy because it lets them explore their sexual and emotional needs without sticking to one relationship box," she told The Feed.
Research from dating app Tinder seems to back this up, with 41 per cent of Gen Zers open to non-monogamous dating . Elisabeth Shaw, CEO of Relationships Australia NSW, said: "The under-40s are exploring all sorts of alternatives for relationships, so we're seeing a generational shift and that will be carried into later life." "The traditional model has not worked for everyone over their lifespan.
" Here are the reasons Hugh, Helen and Lena — and others — believe a throuple works, the challenges it poses, and how it can also offer a journey for personal growth. Becoming three Throuples often evolve from couples , which was the case with Lena, Helen and Hugh. Best friends Helen and Lena, now 33, realised over time they were bisexual and had feelings for.
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