Nirvana Nokwe-Mseleku Says She Was Violated By Co-Star On Set “Triggered By Skeem Saam”

Nirvana Nokwe recently shook things up on social media, sharing a deeply personal story about an experience that left her feeling violated while filming. This came on the back of a controversial “Skeem Saam” storyline, along similar lines, which had sparked an online debate. The actress and singer revealed that her co-star crossed her boundaries, highlighting the critical issue of consent in the entertainment industry.

The Scene That Went Too Far In her heartfelt post, Nirvana explained that she and her co-star had discussed their physical, emotional, and psychological limits prior to filming as her character was a victim of rape. She clearly communicated that there should be no simulation of rape or any forceful physical contact. However, just moments before her close-up, things took an unwelcome turn when he attempted to disregard their agreement, claiming he “got carried away”.



This wasn’t just a small slip-up; it was a total disregard for her stated boundaries. “The incident took place on set during a typical night of filming, where most of us expected professionalism and respect. “The parties involved, clearly understood the sensitivity of the scene and we had extensively discussed and reaffirmed the physical, emotional and psychological boundaries in place, as well as precautionary measures and aftercare to ensure the safety and wellness of both actors performing the scene as well as the crew,” she wrote.

Seeking Justice and Healing After the incident, Nirvana felt unsafe and uncomfortable, noting that the scene’s intent was established long before they filmed. She even sought therapy following her role, wishing to cope with the emotional aftermath. “My physical and psychological boundaries were: no simulation of the act of rape.

Under no circumstances is my co-star to thrust his pelvis into mine ...

I had requested to be taken to therapy upon completion of my role. “It is unfortunate that my co-star violated physical boundaries, emotional as well as psychological too ..

. after my co-star came out of the frame and he took it upon himself to thrust his pelvis into mine.” “Just before the close-up, my co-star tried to negotiate the perimeters .

.. ‘It’s a big moment, maybe you want to consider it.

Give a little flinch, take it further’. I ask him, ‘What do you mean consider it? ..

. I’m not comfortable with you thrusting me’. He says, ‘Okay, but just consider it’.

Unfortunately, her attempts to report the violation were met with frustration as she faced numerous hurdles at different police stations. What should have been a straightforward process turned into a labyrinth of misunderstanding by those tasked with upholding the law. “If you’re wondering .

.. I opened a case.

Was redirected to five police stations, which luckily, all clearly understood where the violation occurred. “Except for one, my investigative officer who did not even understand the definition of sexual assault and debated that the one on the SAPS government website was ‘too vague’. Nirvana Nokwe-Mseleku is known for her performances in streaming shows like “Outlaws” and “Red Ink” among others.

While Nirvana feels a sense of relief for sharing her story, the lack of follow-through on therapy and mediation has left her disappointed. It’s essential for everyone, especially in the industry, to understand the importance of respecting boundaries—because consent isn’t just a conversation; it’s about honouring the agreement..