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A week has passed since the final whistle and the ache persists. Dr. Varun Chowdhry believes the Bills will be champions someday.
Although “it’s just a game,” I still can’t bring myself to reconnect with sports channels and social media feeds. Each “what-if” scenario pulls at a wound not yet healed. Casual conversations that once reverberated through the hallways have turned silent , leaving behind a stillness that echoes with all that remains unsaid .
I can only imagine the weight carried by the players, coaches and staff who poured themselves into their work . Having lived in Dallas, Los Angeles and Boston, I’ve seen the highs and lows of sports in cities defined by their championships. Yet no other city had the ability to convert me to its sports culture like Buffalo has.
It’s in this shared heartbreak that I’ve found the deepest sense of connection with our community. The Auspicious Wisdom traditions of ancient India tell us that love and grief are two expressions of the same deep bond , intertwined in a perpetual dance . The Sanskrit term sahṛdaya (सहृदय) , meaning “one of the same heart,” describes the communal resonance of shared emotion.
As a physician, I’ve found these shared moments create unexpected bridges with patients, enriching the formal doctor-patient relationship. In that stillness of the unspoken, I find opportunities for understanding that help us better address the far greater issues at hand. It is often in these moments of collective disappointment that we discover our most meaningful connections.
I am no sports analyst, but I will not accept branding the Bills as playoff failures. Our brains are wired for storytelling and seek to transform single moments of chance − a ball slipping through fingers, a single yard short − into larger systematic problems. We can fall prey to the representativeness heuristic, where a few dramatic moments overshadow consistent success.
But the numbers tell a different tale, as evidenced by five consecutive division titles. The Bills haven’t failed; they’ve crafted a team and culture that consistently plays for the highest stakes. Despite heartbreaking losses, there is always a response of encouragement and renewed determination.
The arc of sports history shows that sustained excellence eventually finds its breakthrough. The Los Angeles Dodgers endured seven straight years of October heartbreak before finally winning the World Series in 2020. The Tampa Bay Lightning in 2019 were swept in the first round after a record-breaking regular season then went on to win back-to-back Stanley Cups in the following two years.
And, perhaps most resonantly, the Boston Red Sox of the late ‘90’s and early 2000s extended decades of heartbreak and lived under the weight of their division rival’s shadow before their foundation of excellence finally broke through in historic fashion in 2004 after an 86-year drought. What touched me most was that beyond the shared heartache are the ensuing displays of unity. To care deeply is to risk disappointment, but the way the Bills unite our city in a shared passion makes it all worthwhile.
Despite the bitter January cold, fans gathered at the airport to welcome their team home, and I have witnessed the channeling of emotion into acts of service and charity − a humanity that goes far deeper than sports. Our wonderful city is one that stands together when wounds are raw and tomorrow feels distant, a spirit that extends far beyond the game. When that championship parade eventually winds through our streets − and it will − its joy will be sweeter for having weathered these moments together.
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