2 weeks Ago By Sally Land
DEAR DEIDRE: I AM a man of 32 and I’ve only ever had one relationship, which was with a woman. It lasted five years but, now that it is over, I would like to try dating a guy. I worry that people will think I’m too old and having a crisis.
My ex was a family friend and everyone expected me to propose and settle down with her. But I started to find her really dull so we went our separate ways. Now I feel that I am more drawn to men – or maybe I’m not, I really don’t know.
I guess I’m saying that I’m bi-curious. However, if I were to take the plunge and go with a man, I don’t think it would be well received by my family. Should I keep it to myself? READ MORE FROM DEAR DEIDRE JOB FEAR I got caught stealing at work and can't face going to disciplinary meeting DEIDRE'S STORIES Poppy's friend goes on a night out and doesn't come home DEIDRE SAYS: You have the right to explore your own sexuality without having to share your experiences.
Many people question their sexuality later on in life – you are not alone. Perhaps you will enjoy being with a man. You don’t know until you try.
My support pack called LGBT+ Support explains more. Dear Deidre: Understanding open relationships Get out with your friends but worry less about finding somebody who is partner material and just enjoy the social side. If you do opt for a same-sex relationship, you’ll find support through fflag.
org.uk (0300 688 0368). They will help you think about how to tell your friends and family that you are gay – if and when you decide that is the right thing to do.
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