11 hours Ago By Ngozi Uma
Ekene gets angry whenever he sees his friend with his girlfriend – he has a crush on her. He had always wanted to date her, and somehow she would slip from his hand. When they met she told him she had a boyfriend and after she broke up with her boyfriend she started dating his friend and they are all in the same club.
Right now, he is quietly scheming how he would get his friend’s girlfriend in his arms and perhaps make her his woman. “I was the first to meet her, it was like love on first sight. She’s naturally endowed.
She has caramel dark skin with soft full lips and nice curves. She got a good height, too. We became friends immediately.
I asked her if she had a guy, and she told me she had a boyfriend, I didn’t go any further to ask her out. We became just friends, and we are in the same social club. “I was surprised when I started seeing her together with my friend, when we were at the club’s social gathering I would see them together talking and they were always in a closed-up position.
I became jealous whenever I saw them together. Sometimes I would jokingly tell my friend to leave her alone, that is another man’s girlfriend. And we would all laugh.
My friend never told me he was dating her. I asked her if she was going out with my friend and she said they had been dating for months, my friend even asked her to marry him. I was pained.
“I thought you have a serious relationship,” I asked her. She said she broke up with her guy. Why didn’t you tell me, I queried her further.
And she said she didn’t know she needed to tell me. Besides, she didn’t know I loved her or wanted to date her. All my signals to you were all in vain? If I was not interested in you would I have asked you if you had a boyfriend? I told her I liked her and because she told me she was in a relationship that was why I backed out.
“After that day I couldn’t get her off my mind. I was filled with bitterness towards my friend because he knew I liked her. I even told him about her.
Later I got over it, but I didn’t hide my feelings from her. I confessed openly to her how much I wanted to hold her in my arms and kissed her. Whenever I said things like that I saw a sparkle in her eyes.
I started getting her gifts. The thing there, I think she likes me, too, because she has allowed me to kiss and touch her once, she didn’t fuss about it. And we do chat and her responses are encouraging.
“I know my friend will be offended if he finds out I am screwing his woman at his back. But I don’t care. I want this girl.
I wish there was a way I could have her without looking like a betrayal.” Dear Ekene, if you value your relationship with your friend, it is better to take your mind off her. You wouldn’t want to hurt your friend.
Instead, try look for a girl who will return your feelings. There’s a possibility that she likes you because of the gifts you give her and if you ask me, a girl who is comfortable with a kiss from her boyfriend’s friend should not be trusted. If you try to win her over, you might end up losing her the same way, through compromise.
Another thing, it’s not enough to give up on a girl you like because she told you she has a boyfriend. After all, some are in that relationship waiting for their knights to save them. Hello readers, thanks for reading through.
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