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VODCAST host Alex Serruys has opened up about the gut-wrenching moment she realised her boyfriend was cheating on her with escorts. Speaking on Fabulous’ brand new show - Date. Delete.
Repeat - the content creator, 32, said she worried about catching an STI from her sex addict partner. 9 Alex Serruys, co-host of Fabulous' new vodcast Date. Delete.
Repeat, opened up about finding out her boyfriend was cheating on her with escorts Credit: FABULOUS 9 Alex said she found messages on her partner's phone to other women Credit: FABULOUS 9 Alex told co-host Danni Menzies (pictured) about the betrayal in their latest episode Credit: FABULOUS 9 Danni and Alex's new weekly show is on YouTube and podcast platforms Credit: FABULOUS Watch Date. Delete. Repeat.
on YouTube and listen on all podcast providers now . During the episode, Alex was asked by co-host Danni Menzies , 36, who previously hosted A Place In The Sun, if she had ever been cheated on. Alex shared: “I was actually cheated on by someone that was addicted to sex and addicted to hiring escorts behind my back when I wasn't there.
“[I found out] through the messages on his phone.” Danni asked if the messages were to an escort and Alex replied: “Yeah, and it was asking ‘how much for an hour?’” More on relationships LOVE HURTS My boyfriend of one year was hiding a pregnant wife - how he got away with it OLD ON I’m 25 & my boyfriend is 52 - I live a glam life but trolls think I'm after cash Shocked, Danni responded: “Oh no, that’s so disgusting.” Alex continued: “That's just like, two or three I'd found, and you think, ‘well, how long has this been actually happening, and how many have been going on behind my back?’” The content creator candidly shared how she was also understandably worried about her own sexual health , due to not knowing who her partner was also sleeping with.
She added: “ It's also the question of sexual health. Most read in Fabulous I KISSED A GIRL Katy Perry's sex confessions - from lesbian romps to ranking former lovers FINAL CUT Beloved barbers to shut after almost 60 years in Scots city MYSTIC MEG Smooth talking Mercury will bring you words you have been waiting for M&YES I'm a football WAG but still love M&S fashion, my spring picks are giving luxury “Do you need to be checked? What's going on? You know, they say they use condoms, but do they?” Alex clarified that she is “not against” anyone who works in the sex industry and her issue is with guys who cheat on their partners with escorts. Do you call him Daddy? | Date.
Delete. Repeat. She added: “I think you do what you do, and you make your money , and if you're taking these guys for a ride literally and getting paid to do it, absolutely own it.
“It's not on them, it's on the person that's committing that, and doing the cheating.” Speaking of cheating, Alex said: “It’s disgusting and it’s damaging. “It goes back to that point of it makes you feel that you're not good enough, and why don't you want to have sex with me or why am I not enough for you?” Danni agreed, saying: “That is brutal, that would definitely down your confidence.
” 9 Danni and Alex have been friends for a few years Credit: Instagram 9 Alex and Danni's vodcast drops weekly Credit: Instagram What is a sex addiction? SEX addiction, known by the medical term compulsive sexual behaviour, is classified as a mental illness, according to the World Health Organisation. It means the two to four per cent of Brits suffering the condition can get help on the NHS. Dr Valerie Voon, from the Royal College of Psychiatrists, said compulsive sexual behaviour "tends to be hidden as it's shameful", meaning sex addicts often don't seek help.
"Adding this to the WHO list is an excellent step for patients, as it allows them to recognise that they are suffering with a problem," she told The Sun. "It takes it out of the shadows and means they are able to seek help for it." The eight warning signs of compulsive sexual behaviour, also known as hypersexuality and sex addiction , include: recurrent and intense sexual fantasies, urges and behaviours - they will take up a lot of your time and feel like they're out of your control, according to the Mayo Clinic you feel driven to do certain sexual behaviours and feel a release of tension afterwards - but also guilt and remorse compulsive masturbation - there's no definitive answer for what is too much, but when it starts to interfere with your daily life, alarm bells should ring you've tried, but failed, to reduce your sexual fantasies, urges and behaviours you use sex to escape other problems, like loneliness, depression, anxiety or stress you put yourself in dangerous situations - extramarital affairs, unprotected sex, or spend huge amounts on porn you might engage in illegal sexual activity - indecent exposure, upskirting and serious sexual crimes like sex with minors you have trouble establishing or maintaining healthy relationships Alex and Danni’s new podcast explores the highs, lows and everything in between when it comes to finding love.
Every week, the ladies will sit down and reveal what they've got up to, as they swipe, flirt and flail through the chaos that is dating. The very first episode dived into dating standards, saucy nicknames and unsolicited d*** pics. 9 Alex is a content creator and interiors fan Credit: Instagram 9 Danni Menzies is best known for hosting A Place In The Sun Credit: Supplied Alex describes her conversation style as "upfront and direct" which she thinks "can scare people".
Read more on the Scottish Sun PUB ASSAULT Shocking moment men violently shove woman during assault in packed Scots pub LEGAL BID Workers at Scots firm say they've been 'dumped' after all staff axed in collapse She's also from an extremely open family where they discuss her one night stands . And no topic's off limits for her - "I’ll be opening up about everything from my sex life to masturbation – and I won’t be holding back." 9 The podcast reveals details about their dating lives Credit: Instagram / @danni.
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