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Are you planning to participate in a gift exchange with family, friends, or coworkers? Whether it's a Yankee Swap or a Kris Kindle, the pros agree that it's smart to consider the type and cost of any gift exchange present you expect to purchase. "Selecting the right gifts for a White Elephant or Secret Santa exchange is crucial, as it ensures the gift will be appreciated and enjoyed rather than regifted or discarded," says Mohan Babu, a savings specialist at Dealhack.com .
"These exchanges set the tone for the entire holiday event, making it important to choose items that resonate with a broad audience. Remember that a well-chosen gift reflects your care and consideration, contributing to the overall festive spirit." Kayden Roberts, a relationship coach and gifting expert, says the fun of Secret Santa and White Elephant exchanges is about finding that sweet spot between humor, surprise, and thoughtfulness.
"It should be less about the price tag and more about creating a moment of laughter or delight that everyone remembers," she says. "When you nail the gift, it becomes the highlight of the party – sparking conversations and setting the tone for a lighthearted, fun gathering." If you're buying for a White Elephant exchange – in which the presents are typically wrapped but unlabeled and anonymously bestowed – event planner Kirill Basov recommends choosing gifts with broad appeal to avoid awkwardness.
"Things like Bluetooth speakers, gift cards to popular stores, or gourmet snacks are usually crowd-pleasers," says Basov. "For my company's White Elephant last year, I bought a mini karaoke microphone, which ended up being the most stolen gift of the party." Carla Nina Pornelos, general manager of Wardnasse, suggests buying a deluxe notebook or fancy coffee for your Yankee Swap, as "they're both useful, nice, and appreciated – gifts that virtually anyone would like.
" Conversely, Babu recommends novelty kitchen gadgets, such as a unique coffee mug warmer or funny-shaped spatula, as ideal gifts. "Or, gift a portable phone charger, which is always appreciated in our digital age, or board or card games like Uno or Codenames because they encourage group interaction and can be enjoyed by people of all ages," continues Babu. Meanwhile, Roberts is partial to quirky and universally appealing products.
"Think conversation starter gifts like a retro popcorn maker or a mini desktop cornhole set, which are fun, a bit random, and something that almost anyone can enjoy," says Roberts. "Another hit is a funny mug paired with hot chocolate or coffee: it's practical but with a twist of humor or charm." For an ideal Secret Santa gift, focus on tailoring your trinket to the person you're buying it for, especially if you know the recipient.
"If they are a foodie, a gourmet spice kit or a unique set of hot sauces can be a winner. If they're into self-care, consider a cozy blanket or a set of essential oils. Personalization is key here – choose something that aligns with their interests but still has a festive flair," Roberts adds.
Babu's Secret Santa wish list includes a monogrammed notebook, custom keychain, and other personalized gifts that "add a thoughtful touch which makes the present feel unique." Give a gift card to the recipient's favorite store or restaurant for a risk-safe option. No muss, no fuss.
"Or, consider presenting a good novel as a Secret Santa gift," advises Rasa Urbonaite, an event organizer professional with Breezit. "Books are thought-provoking and accessible to a wide audience and demonstrate that you considered what the recipient would enjoy." Urbonaite cautions against presenting fragrant gifts like scented candles as a Secret Santa or White Elephant gift, "as several people might have allergies or sensitivities to strong scents.
" Additionally, Roberts recommends curbing the impulse to gift awkward presents, such as a gag gift that could miss the mark, personal items like skincare, or anything too extravagant that might make others feel uncomfortable about what they spent. Lastly, Babu advises against any items that reflect strong opinions, "such as gifts related to politics, religion, or anything that might spark controversy.".
