Cara-Friend turns 50: ‘I was able to talk openly about who I was for the first time’

One evening in 1978, 19-year-old Paul Meekin walked into a phone box and nervously dialled a number he had seen advertised in the pages of the Belfast Telegraph. It was for Cara-Friend, a befriending and information service for gay and lesbian people in 1974.

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Charlie Lynch and Timothy O’Connell explore the history of the service organisation which is celebrating five decades of supporting and empowering the LGBTQ+ community in NI Heather Fleming, Paul Meekin and Mary Kay Mullan One evening in 1978, 19-year-old Paul Meekin walked into a phone box and nervously dialled a number he had seen advertised in the pages of the Belfast Telegraph. It was for Cara-Friend, a befriending and information service for gay and lesbian people in 1974. After speaking to a supportive volunteer, he arranged to meet two befrienders and was then invited to a meeting in Cara-Friend’s office.

Here, he found support and community, in time becoming a volunteer himself, answering helpline calls from others in need..