Benny Blanco made a list of what he wanted in a wife before Selena Gomez relationship

Benny Blanco revealed on the On Purpose With Jay Shetty podcast that before he started dating Selena Gomez , he made a list outlining everything he wanted in a future wife. “Before I met her, I was a guy in L.A.

trying to find the one for me and I was having some trouble,” he admitted. “I think I was maybe not looking in all the right places.” Wanting to take a more intentional approach, the songwriter and producer worked with his therapist to create a checklist.



Antiques Roadshow guest says 'it's too much' as he's told value of retirement gift Antiques Roadshow expert almost floored as unusual artwork comes with personalized note “I was like, OK, it’s time to be a grown-up, I want to start a life, I want to have a family, I want to find a person that is like my other half that makes me feel better and I make them feel better. It’s a give and take, the perfect yin and yang, so I wrote down a list," he explained. When asked about the details, Blanco said: “The first thing I wrote was that my future wife has to be ‘age appropriate,’” specifying that he meant “30 plus.

” “The second thing I wrote was—I know this is so simple but so hard to come by—somebody who is kind, compassionate, and caring,” he continued. “I was like, ‘That’s really three-in-one but I need someone who is nice. A genuine nice person.

’” Gomez , who has been promoting their joint album I Said I Love You First alongside Blanco, has spoken openly about their relationship since going public in December 2023. Last year, she told The Hollywood Reporter it was the “safest I’ve ever felt” in a relationship. DON'T MISS: Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco's 'backyard' wedding venue poses a problem [INSIGHT] Selena Gomez sells special one-of-one diamond 'B' ring to multiple fans [LATEST] Selena Gomez shows off dramatic weight loss at SAG Awards as fans voice concern [REVEALED] She also shared in Interview magazine that spending five years single helped her be ready for a long-term romance.

“I think that really helped me appreciate someone like Ben ,” she said. “He gets so weirded out by me saying this, but genuinely, 10 years ago, I wasn’t in a space in my life where I could have accepted the kind of patience, the kind of unconditional love that he gives me.” Fans have had mixed reactions to the couple’s public discussions.

One Reddit user commented: “I’m happy for them because they do seem happy...

they seem very sweet. But this press tour has been a lot.” Another added: “We should all know less about each other.

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