Ask Rachel: I feel like I’ve missed out on adventurous sex. Is everyone having fun in bed?

This week, columnist Rachel Johnson advises a woman who feel like she’s missed out on hot sex and a man who is having difficulty reaching climax. WARNING: This story deals with sexual content and is for adults only Dear Rachel, I’ve recently discovered the delights of target="_blank">hot romantic fiction on Audible and it’s making me feel as if I really missed out sex wise. Are people much more adventurous/laid back than they were 30/40 years ago? Also, when women orgasm do they usually have the amazing experiences relayed in these books or is “seeing stars [and] almost losing consciousness” somewhat of an exaggeration? - L.